Work. 2015 to 2021.
Marassi. North Coast.
There was no plan. I needed a summer job between my first and second year of computer engineering. The resort hired me as a temporary waiter. I had never worked in service before. I had never worked at all before. Within two weeks the senior staff started watching me. Within two months they had me leading shifts.
The first season, I studied. Every dish on every menu. Every ingredient. Every step of the sequence of service from the moment a guest crossed the threshold to the moment they signed the bill. The most senior captains had been doing this for a decade and I wanted to know what they knew by the end of the summer. By the end of the season I did.
In 2016 they did something they had never done. They handed the entire restaurant operation to a temporary employee. Me. The summer team rotated; the senior staff trusted me with the room. I was twenty-one. I had to act older. The thing about being trusted with a high-end room is that the trust is renewed every guest, every cover, every shift. There is no resting on yesterday.
The guests started telling me, often and unprompted, that it was the best service they had ever experienced. Not the best service for the price. Not the best service for a beach resort. The best service. Anywhere. I kept their notes. I still have some of them.
What I was actually doing in those years was learning to hold an entire system in my head and run it smoothly while making it look effortless. Sequence of service. Ingredient lineage. Allergen anticipation. Presentation timing. Guest psychology. The kitchen's pace. The bar's queue. The way a table senses a host is rushed before the host realizes it. The way a guest expects a question two seconds before they actually need it answered. None of this was visible to the guest. It was the entire job.
I worked Marassi each summer through 2021. Each year I came back, the work had deepened a little. New venues, new roles, new kinds of guests. By the last summer I was running things I would not have been allowed to touch the first summer. The instinct that started it all was the same. The discipline had grown.
I have been operating that way ever since. Software is a different material, but the architecture is the same. See the room before you walk into it. Know the sequence before the first guest arrives. Make the effort invisible. Let what they feel be what carries.